{"id":445,"date":"2009-06-08T05:16:38","date_gmt":"2009-06-08T12:16:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.srichinmoybio.co.uk\/blog\/?p=445"},"modified":"2009-06-08T05:16:38","modified_gmt":"2009-06-08T12:16:38","slug":"tips-for-better-communication","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.srichinmoybio.co.uk\/blog\/communication\/tips-for-better-communication\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips for Better Communication"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Smiling helps any conversation<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Sometimes silence is a much underrated quality but, everything has its time and place. Good communication is essential for dealing with others.<\/p>\n

These are some tips for better communication.<\/h4>\n

Tips for Speech \/ Conversation.<\/h4>\n

Avoid unnecessary words.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We peppar our speech with unnecessary words. “you know some people say….” I mean…”\u00c2\u00a0 Sometimes less is more, these extra words can also sound condescending. Speak plainly.<\/p>\n

Speak clearly.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is nothing more frustrating than a conversation which is half heard. Always try to speak clearly. If someone asks you to repeat yourself once, make a special effort, because often people will not ask more than once out of a sense of embarrassment.<\/p>\n

Be wary of speaking harshly.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you are really disappointed with someone, you can express your disappointment \/ frustration without anger \/ bitterness. The other person will be much more receptive to your message delivered with sweetness – – or at least the absence of anger and disgust. Sometimes it is more beneficial to take the compassionate approach rather than the justice approach. People may deserve a harsh lesson, but, would it actually help?<\/p>\n

Avoiding unnecessary communication.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is good to communicate well, but, you can have too much of a good thing. Don’t bombard friends with unnecessary text messages. Be confident in your friendship rather than looking for constant reassurance.<\/p>\n

Method of Communication<\/strong><\/p>\n

In a digital age, we tend to gravitate towards the most convenient communication. But, the most convenient communication can be the least personal and least effective. An electronic message has much greater scope for misinterpretation and misunderstanding than speaking to someone in person. The next time you say something satirical \/ sarcastic to a friend try imagine sending that message in an email. You can guarantee without the benefit of facial expression \/ human contact the message would be misinterpreted.<\/p>\n

Difficult Communication.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There are many times when we want to say something, but, put it off because of – nervousness, a desire to avoid difficult situations, or a feeling of guilt for having to tell someone off. But, putting off communication often just makes it worse. What tends to happen is that when we put off speaking to someone our mind just magnifies the problems, turning a small issue into a big problem. Our mind speculates on many adverse reactions which are false. If we find ourself in this situation, the best thing is to speak sooner rather than later.<\/p>\n

Suggestions for Difficult Communication<\/h4>\n