Comments on: When Silence is the best Philosophy

By: patrick

patrick — Tue, 18 Sep 2012 16:54:52 +0000

I deal with anger everyday but i tried hold my temper but explode with terrible rage.I feel so frustrated by life and poverty that is the main problem with my life.I when calm some peop[le make me angry and pick on me.

By: imoh

imoh — Wed, 12 Sep 2012 15:49:37 +0000

my father told me when i was much younger that silence is Golden. but speech is silver

By: jeevi

jeevi — Mon, 19 Mar 2012 13:19:29 +0000

Life is not a bed of roses. Marriage takes a big deal to happen, sustain and win. Try finding out if your perceptions are real, talk to the person involved. Discuss what are the factors that are refraining him in connecting to you like earlier.
Believe in this:
“The evil you do remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!” Do good & Remain Blessed!
So for whatever good you have done, just remember that it gets counted some where else, feel good for what you have done and don’t seek appreciation or gratitude. It will come to you when you are not expecting it.
Quiting from life, relationship, job is always the last solution and probably easiest of all for the time being. But being in there, working to make it work, waiting to see success all takes immense courage, time and efforts.
The biggest success of your life is you got married to a person you loved. So feel blessed for that. Count on the blessings and keep the troubles in mind and fight them. Appreciate the other person for what he has done all through the years, you will receive the same.

All the best!!!

By: Sarika

Sarika — Sat, 25 Feb 2012 17:52:11 +0000

I am going through biggest failure of my life, i got married to a person whome i loved deeply, my married life was great, due to recession my hubby lost the job, he tool some loan on my name, he made again big loss in the business, I am working lady,, so i took it as challenge and told my husband to be strong. i cleared most of the loan. after 6 years of our marriage, 4 and half year my husband was idle, not working, not doing anything, i asked my friend to help me for his job, he refered him in good company he got job and settled, now his behaviour towards me is totally changed, today he told me, i have not done anything for him, so he dont need me, he treats me like i am burden for him, my status is just kam wali or if he need me in the night. Not more than that.
I thought i will go for divorce, but i have two sisters, for their marriage i need to be quite, cant tell my parents, day by day i am loosing my mental status, Can anyone give me some kind of suggestion where atleast till my sisters marriage i will be able to manage him. I am going through lots of changes in my life…

Please help me,,

By: Meaghen

Meaghen — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 15:48:02 +0000

Thank you, what a great article.

By: ec

ec — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 13:25:57 +0000

good views on gossiping .it is an evil to talk ill of others on their back. no one in this world is perfect ,first see your own mistakes than pin point others

By: abdulkadir

abdulkadir — Sat, 10 Sep 2011 09:05:32 +0000

Hi
silence is the only thing that makes our selves happy. there is English proverb which says: “a parking dog don’t bite”. this means that talkative peole don’t have time to think or at least to preview his mind first before he/she start to print to the others. so silence is the only way that saves your time, dignity, personality and also keeps your relations connected.
thanks

By: DANSON Gitau

DANSON Gitau — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 14:51:56 +0000

silence is not only the absense of words but also the stillness of mind,its the best way to communicate in aspects of situations where words are never needed to settle down cicumstances.Our mind becomes calmly settled in silence than when we use words to communicate something sensitively. Thank you

By: NK

NK — Sun, 01 May 2011 12:54:47 +0000

This is more than a comment..it is advice needed!
I have transgressed my own self, lost dignity and self-respect amongst those near and dear.Im going through a divorce, been angry for betraying myself, now living as a single parent while ex reclaimed his status in society,i helped him,how do i reclaim dignity without the shame guilt betrayal i have allowed myself to fall into…how does justice prevail, my son is 4years, ive not worked since then and its created a huge sense of dis-ease within.Lost cofidence, my dadpast away, i have been very passive but now very aggressive..appreciate some advice, married man who protected girl he chose not to marry due to family loyalty, now my behaviour and responses pass blame onto me. Finances and home contentious issue, do i walk away from it all, stand for justice and prove my innocence, while he blames a woman. i take resp for my actions however he had no intention to be sincere and emotionally i could not cope

By: constance

constance — Tue, 05 Apr 2011 12:14:35 +0000

gossip can lead to death. the best thing to do is remain silent, or you will be accused of gossiping.