When Silence is the best Philosophy


Silence, unmoved and rising,
Silence, unmoved and sheltering,
Silence, unmoved and permanent,
Silence, unmoved and brilliant,
Silence, broad and immense like the Ganga,
Silence, unmoved and increasing,
Silence, white and shining like the Moon,
Silence, the Essence of Siva.

– Sivavakkiyar

There was a young aspirant who wished to learn the meaning of life so he travelled to meet the most famous philosophers of his age. The first philosopher gave a very great and lengthy explanation on the meaning of life. The aspirant was suitably impressed and awed by the magnificence of his deliberations. However, straight away this theory was criticised by another philosopher. He cogently pointed out many deficiencies in his system; instead he pointed out another philosophy, which he argued was far superior. Like this several philosophers came to argue their case for having the best philosophy. Some said truth could not be discovered in this life, others said that truth was in a particular book. However, with so many conflicting philosophy’s the aspirant just became confused.

The aspirant decided to travel deep into the forest where he came across a yogi deep in meditation. His face expressed a countenance of deep equanimity, peace and, contemplation. Eagerly the aspirant asked the yogi what was the meaning of life. To this question, the yogi did not flicker even an eyelid, but continued in his deep meditation. The aspirant was disappointed, but remained inspired by the consciousness of the yogi. The next day he came back and his repeated question, the yogi maintained his silence. It was then that the aspirant realised the meaning of life could never be explained in words.  At this point he began to learn meditation himself.

In my deep silence I never become a victim to ignorance,
the greatest calamity that can befall any human being.
In my growing silence I am convinced that even as a man on this earth I shall be able to reach heights, transcendental, divine.
My glowing silence alone can accelerate my
Godward march.

– Sri Chinmoy

– My Silence, from Songs of the Soul

When silence is the best philosophy

1. Dealing with Criticism.

The world is full of critics – there has never been a shortage of critics! If you ever try to do something new you will definitely attract critics. The words of critics can take away all our inspiration and leave us wondering how to respond. However, if we can respond with silence, we maintain a great dignity. The critic wishes to provoke us, but by maintaining silence we are showing that it is beneath our dignity to respond to their false criticisms. It is like they are trying to give us something, but by refusing to accept their gift, the negativity remains with them. By maintaining silence we remain completely detached from their negativity. We can just concentrate on doing the right thing.

Criticism takes away
The very life-breath
Of our peace-heart.

– Sri Chinmoy

2. Stupid Ideas.

Suppose a friend or colleague comes up with an idea for a project. However, we feel that this idea is both unworkable and unpractical. If the idea is foolish we can waste much time and valuable energy in pointing out its weakness. However, instead of trying to show how it is unworkable, we can maintain silence. We will neither argue against it nor work for it. By maintaining silence we require the proponent of the argument to make it work. 9 times out 10 they will not be able to make it happen. Thus, the plan falls of its own accord and we have done nothing other than maintain silence on it.  

3. Inner Peace and Relaxation

Is there anybody who would not appreciate more inner peace? Life is stressful, and it seems difficult to be able to relax and be at peace. However, it is quite possible to detach ourselves from the worries and anxieties endemic in modern life. The key is the ability to maintain silence for a few minutes each day. Here silence does not just mean outer silence; real silence means silence in our mind. This requires us to control our thoughts. If we can maintain silence in our mind, we will feel great inner peace no matter what is happening in the outer life.

4. Gossip

Some humans love to gossip and point out the bad habits of other people. When others start to gossip it is easy to get drawn in. Before we know it, we are criticising our friends and work colleagues. If others were gossiping about us we would feel bad and miserable, yet here we are doing it ourselves. When people start gossiping, it is best to maintain silence. If we become known as someone who does not gossip and spread unkind words about people we will greater respect.  

Photo by Ranjit Swanson, Sri Chinmoy Centre Galleries

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51 thoughts on “When Silence is the best Philosophy”

  1. Some questions and some things can be answered only in Silence !!!!!!!

    Even God,,,
    God cannot be explained in Words… because words falls short to Say about his Glory and bliss…

    God can be explained only in SILENCE….

    Thats what it is said :

    Stop talking, Jus Watch :: Silence Speaks !!!

  2. Silence is building patience, patience breeds tolerance, tolerance is virtue in today’s world…try 1 day-just watch how by keeping silent, everyone around you has SO MUCH to say…you would be glad you are not a part of it!

  3. tick tick of the clock…nothing else but silence… its music… I am not anywhere… only HE…bliss, ecstasy, peace, divinity, joy…the feeling of nothingness…light… lighter… LIGHT

  4. thank you for the inspiration and advice…..we have been victims and such great words make a huge change

  5. thanku for the inspiration it really has answered my uncertainties . So glad i logged on keep up the goodwork it definately has changed peoples lives.

  6. i wanted to know what inner peace meant only when a friend i met on holiday text me and told me to my surprise that she admired my inner peace i was totally unaware of this quality now that she has brought it to my attention i definately want to follow this through and improve on it but her few positive words have changed my whole world and reading through your article i have been doing the stuff you have talked about thanks.

  7. hi, i really experience silence. practically i come around, people waste lot of power in speaking unnecessary things.
    Even they do not know why they are speaking. “funny”

  8. silence is good but you can’t use it as a weapon against survival. Because from every way of thinking it comes out that survival is above everything even above knowledge.

  9. Hi ! silence and unsilence are all good and bad but important thing is to know right place to use what otherwise we could not stop what we dont need or no do what we need.

  10. Silence is good but at times, it can kill you. I believe that knowing the right place and meditating right things in times of silence will always bring stregth.
    We also need to know how to position ourselves.

  11. Just started to read from this site about silence and how to harness it. Very thought provoking and I can see the dilemma sometimes of remaining silent in contexts where perhaps words may help.

  12. Hey, you have written this on my Birthday…….. on Aug 17th…….. its like a gift to me now in 2010 when i read this……. 🙂

  13. Of course silence is good…….. & i agree with everyone who has commented above……

    For me now SILENCE IS STRENGTH………

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