Comments on: Dealing With Different Types of People

By: werner

werner — Wed, 02 Mar 2011 01:07:36 +0000

Spot on with the ego and opinionated person, spot on !!!
I have to live with one, please pray for me !

By: Catherine

Catherine — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 22:36:01 +0000

Hi Tejven!

I am really glad I found this post; it gave me a better view about different people and how to deal with them. I also found some of my own characteristics in the post, and I don’t mind being labeled because it is who I am. I’m having a very (VERY) difficult time dealing with a few opinionated and egocentric people in my small class at college, I think this will help me in the future. Thank you!

By: Kamran

Kamran — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 04:20:08 +0000

Dear ALL,

HI to everyone
Please advise on below
Whenever we expect something for someone may be our parents,friend or any one & full filled by same.we respect him/her ,love him/her but in some cases if our expectation not fullfilled.we hate the same people will tell bad infront of him/her even behind him.
What this is Called human beings??
So for all,We should not keep the expectation from any one because this is one of the resion by which we feel number of times in stress.Live happy & left the people to leave happily.
DO ONLY EXPECTATION FROM GOD & ITSELF, NOT FOR OTHERS TO LIVE HAPPILY.

Thanks!!!

By: M Joseph Melchior

M Joseph Melchior — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 12:04:21 +0000

It is a nice grouping. We can judge ourself in which category we fall. And take corrective step or continue to be in the same category. The choice is our. I feel we need to change for our own betterment not for the sake of others. Therefore the grouping is standard and we compare with the standard. Joseph Melchior

By: naima

naima — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 16:21:01 +0000

this article is helpful because it helps me understand the characteristics of oher people and i read about the kind of characteistics that i and some of the people around me have. this is mostly true and helpful when trying to understand somone.

By: Mumuxu

Mumuxu — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 18:36:45 +0000

Like our fingers,no two persons are same…We tend to behave in a reactive way with others….Personally, I feel & have experience if u have goodness in ur heart even difficult people are easy to manage .Goodness appeals to every heart no matter..God bless

By: Indian NGO

Indian NGO — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 18:47:12 +0000

It is very true that sometimes it becomes very difficult to deal properly with all sorts of different people we come across in our day to day lives. This article may come handy as it gives us some insight about the characteristics of some variety of people…

By: Celina

Celina — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 23:08:40 +0000

Wow, what a timely post! I was just thinking about an opinionated friend of mine, and then I found this article! Thanks. But I would like to further understand why opinionated people are the way they are. I mean my friend, turns every little difference of opinion into a full blown debate. She always feels the need to be right and prove her point. Do you think this habit stems from insecurity? Is it just a means to fuel the person’s ego?

By: Davina

Davina — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 22:50:24 +0000

Hi Tejvan. I can appreciate that you are trying to be resourceful and helpful here. It is difficult to deal with “difficult people.” But I too feel “off” when I feel labelled as being any kind of person.

I read your earlier post and think you have listed some great ideas to make connection and communication clearer. One other thing I feel is important to add to the list is to not personalize another person’s response or reaction. As soon as you take it personally, you are caught and it’s more difficult to respond in a supportive way.

By: Simona Rich @ Personal Development Coach

Simona Rich @ Personal Development Coach — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 20:32:12 +0000

I do not think it is good to label people.

You only notice such negative features in others if you have such features in you.

If you do not have any of the negative features, you will not be able to notice them in others because such features in others will not resonate with you.

For example, if you are an angry person and you meet a person who also tends to be angry, you will bring out this negative feature in him because you have a lot of anger in you.